A Short Guide to Professional Services for Parents

Who does what and why would I need them?

Every single child has a unique pattern of strengths and challenges that exist across emotional, mental, and physical domains. Sometimes, these specific sets of strengths and challenges can result in a child receiving certain diagnoses.

Diagnoses, as you probably know, often get a bad reputation for “labeling” children; but this is not the intention of a diagnosis. Ideally, a diagnosis will assist a child and their families in receiving the most appropriate professional services and support.

For example, if a child with Spina Bifida never received a diagnosis, his medical care teams would not be able to communicate effectively about the ongoing concerns and plan for his treatment. The same is true for diagnoses related to mental and emotional health, learning differences, eating and feeding disorders, etc… developmental delays, neurological disorders, genetic conditions, and on and on. Diagnoses help us understand common concerns so that we can better treat the unique individual in front of us.

But receiving a diagnosis does not magically create a care team out of thin air. Parents can easily feel overwhelmed by the professional care options that are available. For a diagnosis like autism, for example, it may take months for a family to identify the best set of specific services for their child. And then as a child grows, his or her needs may shift, and so will the care team.

Budgeting for different professional services is also a major concern for many families who want to utilize their resources most effectively while finding help for their child.

Parents may struggle to choose the “perfect” set of interventions to help their child and family maintain balance.

Which service do we start with?

What is the most important?

What do some of these services even mean?

While no one person can answer those questions for your own family, maybe we can help you better understand what some of these services are.

The following list offers a brief overview of some of the more common professional services that may be recommended for families of children who need some extra support.

Pediatricians

This is your child’s primary physician, who is often the first professional you contact. Your pediatrician should be able to point you toward someone who can provide professional assessments for diagnostic purposes.

Often, pediatricians are the referral sources for other professional services. Choose someone who can know and understand your family as your child grows!

Physical Therapists (PT)

Physical therapists are movement experts who improve the quality of life through prescribed exercise, hands-on care, and patient education (apta.org).

Physical therapists can be used for temporary or long-term care in helping a person improve their movement and decrease bodily pain. Physical therapy is often used for rehabilitation purposes but is also helpful for children with certain developmental delays or who struggle with aspects of physical health.

Learn more about PTs here

Occupational Therapists (OT)

“Occupational therapy enables people of all ages to participate in daily living” (aota.org).

Occupational therapists work with children and adults to better operate within their regular environments. This is a field with so many specific focuses. I find the video below to be incredibly helpful in providing an overview.

Occupational therapists and physical therapists differ in that physical therapists help patients with the mechanics of body movement, whereas occupational therapists help patients perform certain daily activities and skills. The two can go hand in hand, but are not the same type of therapy.

 

What Can Occupational Therapy Do For You?

Speech-Language Pathologist (SLP)

Speech-Language Pathologists treat many types of communication and swallowing problems (asha.org). An SLP can help a child (or adult) speak clearly and more confidently. They also work on the mechanics of feeding in patients who struggle with the physical ability to chew and swallow food.

Learn more about SLPs here

Registered Dietitians (RD) or (RDN)

A registered dietitian (RD) or (RDN), is medically trained in helping individuals and families with feeding and nutritional care. Diagnoses such as autism, diabetes, sensory processing disorder, eating and feeding disorders, and many others often require a need for this type of support. An RDN focuses on your child’s specific nutritional needs. While an SLP may help someone with the mechanics of eating, an RDN will help with what is being eaten.

Learn more about what RDNs can treat in children here

Psychiatrists (MD)

A psychiatrist is a medical doctor (MD) who specialized in the branch of medicine concerned with the study, diagnosis, and treatment of mental illness (APA).

Usually, psychiatrists do not provide the bulk of talk therapy, though they are qualified to do so. They prescribe medications to support clients and do not typically see clients as frequently as the primary talk therapist. Many family care teams utilize a psychiatrist alongside a professional counselor. In this scenario, a psychiatrist will generally check in every 3 months or so to maintain medication, and a talk or play therapist will meet weekly with the client to work on mental and emotional health.

Psychologists (PsyD)

Psychologists undergo 6-8 years of post-graduate mental health education and hold a non-medical doctoral degree. Psychologists are specifically trained in administering assessments that help clients and their families better understand the client’s strengths and weaknesses and overall way of operating. It is often a psychologist who formerly diagnoses a child who is seeking services for mental and emotional health, behavioral concerns, or for learning differences. Psychologists are also skilled in seeing clients in a professional counseling setting and can provide traditional talk therapy.

Psychologists differ from psychiatrists in that they are not trained as medical doctors and cannot prescribe medication.

Note: Some professional counselors, specifically those who have obtained doctoral training, are also able to provide and discern assessments. Psychologists, however, are all trained in this area and can also offer projective tests that other licenses cannot.

Learn more about the process of becoming a licensed psychologist here

School Psychologist

A Licensed Specialist in School Psychology (LSSP) can perform testing and mental health services in the school setting. These individuals help students determine if they are eligible for special education services or classroom interventions.

Learn more about LSSP and school psychologists in the state of Texas here

Professional Counselors According to the American Counseling Association, Professional counseling is a professional

relationship that empowers diverse individuals, families, and groups to accomplish mental health, wellness, education, and career goals (ACA).

For children, professional counselors utilize play therapy to connect with children using the language in which they are most fluent: play.

Counselors can have various licenses, as well as a variety of different niches of care.

However, just because someone is licensed in counseling does not mean that the person is professionally trained in every specific type of counseling, such as play therapy, family therapy, substance use or eating disorders treatment, etc. If you are seeking a professional with a certain focus, make sure to ask specific questions about the counselor’s methods and philosophy of treatment.

Counselors working with children should have experience and training in play therapy.

Learn more about professional counseling here

In the state of Texas there are several professional licenses that see clients for professional counseling:

Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT)
Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)

An LCSW is a social worker who pursued licensure to be able to see clients in a counseling setting. Not all social workers are professional counselors. An LMSW (Licensed Master Social Worker) does not have license to independently practice counseling.

Psychologists (PsyD)

See above

Psychiatrists (MD)

See above

Family Therapists

A professional counselor (see above) (who is specifically trained in working with the family system. Sometimes a family is referred to family therapy alongside individual or play therapy.

Behavioral Therapists

Behavioral therapists work strictly with the goal of modifying specific behaviors in a child or adult. Professional counselors can utilize behavioral methods, but many prefer other modes of counseling.

Some behavioral therapy certifications, such as Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA), require a person to be certified in the specific modality but not in professional counseling as a whole. These individuals work to alter specific behaviors that a child may present. It is a modality requiring consistency and practice with the child and/or family unit.

Schools often use Behavior Intervention Specialists as well. These individuals, like ABA professionals, are trained in a specific modality of behavior modification and are not professional counselors. Their work is highly focused on changing the way a person behaves or responds to stimuli.

Learn more about behavioral counseling here and here

The Lifelong Impact: Connecting with Your Child at Every Stage

As a mom, there is no greater joy than witnessing your child grow and thrive. From the moment they enter this world until they embark on their journey into adulthood, every stage of your child’s life is filled with unique opportunities for connection and growth. In this blog, we will explore the importance of connecting with your child at each developmental stage, from infancy to late adolescence, and understand how these connections lay the foundation for their future.

 

  1. Infancy (Birth to Age 2):

During the first two years of your child’s life, the foundation of their emotional, cognitive, and social development is laid. Infancy is a critical period for bonding, where your child learns trust and security. By responding to their needs promptly, engaging in gentle touch, and maintaining eye contact, you establish a secure attachment that fosters healthy relationships throughout their life.

 

  1. Early Childhood (Ages 2-6):

Early childhood is a time of tremendous growth and exploration. It is essential to connect with your child by actively participating in their play, offering guidance, and providing a safe environment for them to learn and develop. By engaging in meaningful conversations, encouraging their curiosity, and celebrating their achievements, you nurture their self-esteem and confidence, laying the groundwork for future success.

 

  1. Middle Childhood (Ages 6-9):

As your child enters the middle childhood stage, they become more independent and develop their unique personality. Connecting with them during this phase involves active listening, showing interest in their hobbies, and being involved in their education. By being a supportive presence in their lives, you instill a sense of belonging and create a safe space for them to express their thoughts and emotions.

 

  1. Late Childhood/Early Adolescence (Ages 9-12):

During this stage, your child is on the cusp of adolescence, navigating physical and emotional changes. As a mother, it’s vital to connect with your child by fostering open communication, setting boundaries, and guiding them through challenges. By maintaining a non-judgmental approach and offering your support, you can help them build resilience and cope with the complexities of this transitional period.

 

  1. Middle Adolescence (Ages 12-15):

Middle adolescence is a time of increased independence and self-discovery. Connecting with your teenager involves respecting their autonomy while staying involved in their lives. Actively listening, empathizing with their struggles, and providing guidance without being overbearing will strengthen your bond. Creating opportunities for shared activities and maintaining open lines of communication will help them navigate relationships, academic challenges, and identity formation.

 

  1. Late Adolescence (Ages 15-18):

As your child prepares to step into adulthood, the connection you foster during this period becomes even more crucial. Encourage their independence, support their goals and aspirations, and help them develop decision-making skills. By demonstrating trust and respect, you empower them to navigate the challenges of adulthood while knowing they can turn to you for guidance.

 

Connecting with your child at every stage of their development is an investment in their future. From the early days of infancy to the transformative years of adolescence, your role as a mother is to be a constant source of love, support, and understanding. By building strong connections and fostering open communication, you provide a solid foundation for their emotional well-being, self-esteem, and healthy relationships. Embrace each stage with enthusiasm, and cherish the opportunity to watch your child flourish into a confident and compassionate adult.

The Value of Quality and Intentional Time with Your Kids: Fun Indoor Activities to Strengthen Bonds

In today’s fast-paced world, where time seems to slip through our fingers, it’s easy to overlook the significance of spending quality time with our children. Amid busy schedules and never-ending to-do lists, carving out intentional time for our little ones becomes crucial. Engaging in meaningful activities not only strengthens the parent-child bond but also nurtures their growth, development, and overall well-being. When faced with indoor constraints, there is an abundance of creative and enjoyable activities to explore. Let’s dive into the importance of quality time with your kids and discover some inspiring ideas for indoor adventures.

The Power of Quality Time: Children thrive on love, attention, and a sense of belonging. Spending quality time with them helps create a safe and nurturing environment for their emotional, social, and cognitive development. Here’s why quality time matters:

  1. Building Strong Bonds: Regular, dedicated time spent together fosters a strong parent-child relationship, establishing trust and open communication.
  2. Emotional Nourishment: Engaging in conversations, listening attentively, and expressing affection provide emotional support, enhancing their self-esteem and confidence.
  3. Language and Cognitive Development: Meaningful interactions stimulate cognitive abilities, language skills, and critical thinking, helping children develop intellectually.
  4. Creating Lasting Memories: Cherished memories created during quality time form the foundation of a positive and loving childhood, influencing their future relationships.

Indoor Activities to Strengthen Bonds: When the weather doesn’t cooperate or circumstances confine us indoors, here are some fantastic ideas to make the most of your time with the little ones:

  1. Trash Robot: Find random items throughout your house that would typically be discarded as trash and create a robot. 
  2. Bake/Cook Together: An afternoon spent in the kitchen can support math and reading skills, as your kids help measure, mix, and create treats. 
  3. Treasure Hunt: Make an inventory of fun things, then hide them around the house. Next, give your kids the list. Have a prize for the winner!
  4. Talent Show: Encourage your kids and their friends to demonstrate their greatest talents. You can even make it into a talent competition, with prizes. 
  5. Paint Faces: Kids don’t have to go to a fair for face painting. They can do it at home with simple kits. 
  6. Make a Fort: Kids love to enjoy their own secret places. Help them use a sheet, blanket, and other items to build a private ‘fort’. 
  7. Decorate the Windows: Let your kids use washable window markers or peelable stickers to create their own images. 
  8. Paper Airplanes: Search online for different designs, then help your kids to cut, fold, and fly them to see which goes the furthest, highest, and so on. 
  9. Make Popsicles: Forget about store-bought popsicles; you can help your kids make their own, using more nutritious ingredients with molds, sticks, juice, and fruit. 

Click here for a complete list of some fun Indoor Activities

In the hectic pace of modern life, the value of quality and intentional time with our kids cannot be overstated. By dedicating time to meaningful activities indoors, we not only strengthen the parent-child bond but also provide a nurturing environment for their growth and development. From storytelling to indoor camping, art projects to dance parties, the options for engaging indoor activities are endless. So, let’s prioritize our children and make lasting memories, one meaningful moment at a time.